Thursday, July 30, 2009

"Is she drunk?"

One of my bestest buddies who also happens to be my favorite younger sister, Nikki, came to visit us last weekend. It was a short trip (only 3 days) but we jam packed it with fun. There are so many things I have wanted to do but don't have a friend to do them with, so I tried to fit in all my saved up fun things. We picked her up from the airport on Friday morning. I woke up at 7:30am and couldn't fall back asleep because I was too excited. In three short days we managed to go to Old Sac, hang out where I work for a little, lay by the pool, go skateboarding/longboarding, go shopping at the mall, go out to dinner at BJ's with friends, attempt to float the American River, play tennis, go fishing, lay by the pool some more, eat at Panera, dye my hair, go to Dream Xtreme for some surfing, play some pong, hit one of the clubs in Sac, go to church, have a mini photoshoot, have a barbecue, watch TV, and make cookies. I loved having a friend at every second of the day to hang out with. It was very depressing to drop her back off at the airport. As always, I took way too many pictures. Miles says that if there were a procedure for it, he'd get would get a camera surgically attached to my body. This need I have to document every second of my life is only magnified when I'm with my sisters. So enjoy the pictures, I will be very impressed and proud if you make it to the end! 
Oh, and Jen... now it's your turn. You better set aside a weekend in August to come visit. Look at all the fun we could have! Ponder on that.

  
  

Congratulations! You made it to the end. I wish I had a prize to offer, but I don't. 


Monday, July 20, 2009

When Opportunity Rings Your Doorbell.

Miles and I were laying in bed asleep on Friday morning when we heard our doorbell ring around 8:15. We have been asking the apartment complex to come fix a door that fell off it's hinge for awhile now, and they were supposed to be coming that day between 9 and 12. So Miles threw on some basketball shorts to answer the door. Instead, it was Kevin Fillmore asking if Miles wanted to go skydiving with some guys from the office. Miles said no, came back to bed. I asked who it was and what he wanted. He told me and I asked him if he wanted to go, he said no, I just want to be with you. So we went back to bed. But as I rolled over to fall asleep, I started thinking. How often does opportunity literally ring your door bell? I asked him again, do you want to go? And in his little raspy morning voice he said "yeaaaah." And I said ok, let's go. I'm coming too. 

There was seriously no feeling like it. I was pretty nervous up until we got in to the plane, from there I was okay, which is weird because you'd think you'd get more nervous as you enter a tiny plane that you're going to jump out of... but I got a lot more calm. Maybe it's because there was no turning back. I just didn't think about it any more. I enjoyed the view, talked with my instructor (who has done over 6,000 jumps) and just jumped. We free fell 9,000 feet at an altitude of 13,000 feet and at 4,000 feet the parachute was released. The only thoughts going through my head during the free fall were "remember to breath, but smile, but remember to breath, have fun, remember to breath, smile" because it was so hard to breath! But once the parachute was released it was calm and quiet and peaceful. I would do it again, but I think my mom would have a heart attack! When I called her after we were done she asked me why I would ever do that. I told her it's because I wanted to try three things I had never done before, her response made me laugh "well make donuts next time, you've never made donuts." I love you momma! Hope you enjoyed the pictures :)
This whole experience has got me to thinking though, what is opportunity? When does it knock? I think you can wait a whole lifetime waiting, listening, hoping and not hear a knock at all. But instead I think we have to make our own opportunities. Some of my goals for the next six months are to be more open to opportunities, say yes to more things, as well as try things I've never tried before. I want to be ready whenever an opportunity presents itself. I think that as often happens in  life, opportunities seem to come out of nowhere. Some people will make excuses why they can't grab the opportunity when it lands in their lap because they don't feel ready or able. But perfect alignment between the availability of opportunity and your preparedness rarely occurs. I want to be ready when opportunity knocks, because most times, it only knocks once.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

23 & 24 Things.

For an FHE activity in May, Miles and I created lists: 23 (and 24 for Miles) Things I Want to do Before Turning 23 (24). We thought of things that would be completely attainable if we put in the effort. I was pretty gung-hoe at the beginning. In fact, the day after I started I completed #1: Learn How to Make Truffles. I made Miles some red velvet truffles. They were pretty good, I perfected them when I made chocolate truffles. They're really easy and very tasty! Let me know if you want the recipe.
 

So far I have completed the following: 
1: learn how to make truffles, 9: create and get business cards printed 12: sell our car. buy a new one. And I'm working diligently on #14: see every member of my immediate family. I'm so homesick it's ridiculous. 

As for Miles, he's finished quite a few without even knowing it. 
Yesterday he learned how to drive a motorcycle, which is #12 on his list. He has also learned a magic trick (14) planned a trip to Italy (6) and he has beat me at Crazy 8's (24). Now that we've reread the things we wrote down two months ago I think we'll really start to work on them! 
We've decided to work on two each week. This week Miles is working on #11: memorizing a scripture and #21: have me teach him how to take a good photo. I'm going to work on #4: cook an amazing dinner that you'd think came from a restaurant and #20: try three things I've never done before. I think blogging about these things will give us a better chance of completing our goals. So sorry if this bored you, but it helps me!  

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Bring Your Husband to Work Day

A few weeks ago the Pinnacle office went to a SF Giants game. I didn't have enough notice to get the day off from work, so instead Miles came and hung out with me for a few hours at the skate park. It was a lot of fun to eat dinner together at a normal time and to watch Miles skate and teach one of the kids a few tricks. Now Miles and I have both spent a few hours in the life of one another's jobs. I have to say, mine is a lot more fun, but Miles' pays a whole heck of a lot better! In fact, we calculated my hours for this month, and I made half as much in an entire month than Miles does in a week. Thanks for working so hard Miles! 
The skate park is monitored with camera's by the city so the kids have to wear elbow and knee pads as well as a helmet. Miles was no exception. I didn't have a good camera to take a picture, but my cell phone actually took a pretty decent picture. Here's Miles rocking out on a borrowed skate board with someone else's pads (kind of gross but oh well). I just started designing and painting one a skateboard of my own, so pictures will follow once I'm done. 

Missing:

My sister, Jen, is at home in Connecticut which makes me even more homesick... and when I was talking to her and my mom on the phone this morning and I could hear Matthew talking in the background. His little voice is just so cute. I want to bottle it up and keep it forever. I can't believe how fast he's growing up, it makes me sad that I can't be there. So today I am missing Matthew. I love that little guy. And now there's another little Lake coming into the world and I can't wait to snuggle and hold him.